I know what it is you’re going through and how you’re feeling. My hope is that my Diary will help other girls know that they’re not alone and to give you ways to fight this.
Im going to be writing in this Diary about how my days went, stories of my past struggles and how I over came them, Future goals, and many other things. Read my stories and learn from my mistakes. Maybe you could even start keeping a diary of your life, your greatest moments, and your crappiest moments.
We’re the parents of the teenager!
Our goal is to help parents to know what we are doing to help our daughter, in hopes that it will help you with your teens.
How many times have you found your self asking now what do I do??? Well, welcome to the club. I hope we can give you resources that you have been looking for. I hope our story and thoughts and all we have tried will help give you ideas for your family. We know it can be hard but we also know you can all get through this.
Write in your journals
One day as the parent you will want to look back to remind your self of what this was like for you all, or you may need to look back to help another child get through it. Maybe you’ll have a neighbor or friend who comes to you for help. As the person going through the addiction one day you may have some one who needs your help since you have been through it and going through your journal can help you remember all you went through and all you did to beat this. Or maybe you will relapse and you will be glad you have the journal to look back on to remind you what you did the last time.
Never Give Up!
Tips for Success!
NEVER GIVE UP!!! No matter how hard it feels, NEVER GIVE UP!!!
Common Questions/FAQ About PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION AS A FEMALE
Question 1 Is something wrong with me?
No, nothing is wrong with you!
Question 2 Am I worthless?
This does not define you! You are a daughter of God and You are worth everything to Him, NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO!
NO, you would actually be amazed/shocked how many females are actually struggling with this. Today there is at least as many females struggling with this if not more than males! Unfortunately we females keep it a secret, so we have to suffer alone.
It will take as long as it takes. Here’s the thing, if you want to beat this and you want to be better, then it will happen as fast as it can. If you’re half hearted and don’t put your full effort in to beating this then you are probably looking at a very long time. You get out what you put in. Recovery is a CHOICE.
When we watch pornography there are many reasons why we can tend to feel so lonely. For example our guilt can cause us to pull away even though we don’t realize we’re doing it. You can loose your sense of love of life, like you stop wanting to do the things you love because you’d rather look at pornography. There are many other reasons.
NO! As a parent we tend to like to blame our selves for our kids struggles or bad choices. It is not our fault, it is not because you did to much or didn’t do enough! It just is what it is. The best thing we can do is educate our selves, pray to our Heavenly Father for guidance, and don’t be afraid to open up to your friends and family you trust. You would be surprised how many will be in your same shoes and you can help each other.
The Last Thing You Need to Know about this Diary
You are not alone! This is very real, it is every where, so many are struggling especially our youth. Never give up hope, there is always hope. You will get the very real truth from us. We know if you hear our story it will help you somehow.
Write in your own journals, write down all your thoughts and all your feelings. You will be so grateful you did!
